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		<title>Tips To Help You Get Out Of Debt</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Apr 2012 21:08:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tyler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Debt can easily be accumulated over years and years of spending or making large purchases that sometimes you don’t realize how far in debt you are until you begin to struggle to make the payments or to get a loan for something. Remember that you want to keep your debt to income ratio feasible.  If [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Piggy-bank.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-140" title="Piggy bank" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Piggy-bank-300x230.jpg" alt="Getting out of debt" width="300" height="230" /></a>Debt can easily be accumulated over years and years of spending or making large purchases that sometimes you don’t realize how far in debt you are until you begin to struggle to make the payments or to get a loan for something. Remember that you want to keep your debt to income ratio feasible.  If your debt is more than your income than you have a serious problem and are probably going delinquent on a few loans. Don’t panic! The majority of the population has some sort of debt and if you want and approach transactions carefully you should be able to chip away your debt a little at a time.</p>
<p>Begin by controlling your spending. Managing your cash effectively and you debt will become easier to control. You can easily manage your cash flow by organizing a budget plan. If you can eliminate unnecessary spending then you can easily pay of your debt payments quicker.</p>
<p>Next you need to start cutting overall costs. Consider consolidation loans as means of settling emergency debts and reducing your monthly outgoings. Personal loans area good alternative for those with strong credit, but those with less than perfect repayment history can consider joining a credit union. Credit cards can often be transferred to a different provider at a preferential interest rate. Sometimes the lenders will waive interest altogether for a limited time period to secure your business.<br />
If you can reposition your finances sufficiently make sure that you establish a good communication with the lenders. Talk with them about organizing a restructured payment plan, the immediate pressure of debt problems can be relinquished until you are in a stronger financial position.</p>
<p>Getting out of debt is something everyone can do if they put their mind to it. A great way to get your mind set on paying of debt is instead of adding to the already occurring debt try and focus on paying it off with a little extra money as you get it.</p>
<p>If you speak with a financial advisor many of them will begin by telling you to pay off the debt with the highest interest rate first. You may also consider picking up an extra job and using that money only to pay of your debt. Consider using <a href="http://www.consolidatedcredit.ca/credit-counselling">consumer credit counseling</a> to help you consolidate your debt and to pay them down quickly.</p>
<p>Another way as mentioned before is prioritize what you’re spending your money on. A great example is lunches during the work day. Majority of the working society often eats out for lunch and that can add up in one week eating out every day. Consider packing your own lunch that week and using that money that you didn’t spend to put on a debt payment. Also when buying food for your home, consider buying in bulk and freezing the extra till you need it.</p>
<p>Another great way to make yourself more aware of what you’re spending is to write it down in a log, it is similar as if you were to create a budget plan, except you document every expense you bought in that month no matter if it’s a large cost or a cup of coffee. Eventually you will begin to notice how much you spend on items you could have lived without.</p>
<p>Your finances may be a cause for concern right now but it is important to remember that there are no debt problems that are completely unsolvable. Unfortunately there isn’t a fast track solution in resolving debt but with a great budget plan and the other suggestions listed you should be able to eliminate the debt you have and hopefully make you more aware when you go to make large purchases.</p>
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		<title>Keeping Your Car Clean With A Toddler</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Fitness]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Toddlers are a joy that seem to compound both your love and your stress especially when they are in the car. If you just bought a new car you may be worried about how to keep the interior looking good with your toddler in the car. Always carry wipes in your car. You never know [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Child-in-Car-Seat.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-132" title="Child in Car Seat" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Child-in-Car-Seat-300x199.jpg" alt="Driving in a car with a child" width="300" height="199" /></a>Toddlers are a joy that seem to compound both your love and your stress especially when they are in the car. If you just bought a new car you may be worried about how to keep the interior looking good with your toddler in the car.</p>
<p>Always carry wipes in your car. You never know what sticky substance your toddler may have found either in the car our outside. Having wipes handy will make a potential disaster easily avoided; just wipe and you are done.</p>
<p>Have a trash bag in the car for wipes, food, and any other items that should be thrown away. This will keep the floor of your car clean and free from clutter. Decide that every time you go to the gas station to empty the trash. You could even have your toddler help and reward your child with a treat for helping.</p>
<p>If you eat a lot in the car, choose foods for your toddler that easily clean up if spilled. You may want to avoid giving your child sugary items. Drinks that have sugar become sticky and can be hard to clean up, same with sugary snacks. You may want to invest in  <a href="http://www.carid.com/husky/">Husky floor liners</a>, they come tailored to fit the make and model of your car and last longer and are more durable than the standard liners. They look great and if your toddler spills they can be cleaned easily and be hassle free. The stain-resistant nylon or rubber mats allow easy wipe up of all kinds of spills. No longer will you need to slave away on hands and knees scrubbing out French fry grease and juice from sippycups.</p>
<p>Another idea is to keep a towel under your toddlers car seat. This will help keep the actual seat of the car clean from the smashed cheerios, fries and other foods plus it is easy to grab the towel and empty the debris into the trash can.</p>
<p>Many times toddlers get bored being in the car have books and other items without small pieces for them to play with. If they have something to do they may not start screaming and throwing things all over the car.</p>
<p>With just some simple steps you don&#8217;t have to dread getting in your car with a toddler but you can feel good about taking them on errands or even a road trip. So save a little patience for other spots in your life and let your car be a place of peace.</p>
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		<title>Recovering from Surgery</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 17:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Undergoing a surgical procedure of any kind can be a stressful and painful experience. Thankfully, modern medical interventions are available to minimize pain both before and after surgeries but there will still be issues of pain and discomfort and these can be greatly exacerbated by improper aftercare. It is imperative that the recovering patient listens [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Recovering-from-surgery.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-127" title="Post Surgery" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Recovering-from-surgery-300x200.jpg" alt="Recovering from surgery" width="300" height="200" /></a>Undergoing a surgical procedure of any kind can be a stressful and painful experience. Thankfully, modern medical interventions are available to minimize pain both before and after surgeries but there will still be issues of pain and discomfort and these can be greatly exacerbated by improper aftercare. It is imperative that the recovering patient listens to and follows the instructions of the attending physicians and nurses that are assisting with the recovery process. Depending on the extent and severity of the surgical procedure some patients may be able to leave shortly after the surgery (this is generally referred to as an outpatient surgery) or the patient may be required to stay in the hospital for an extended period so that the medical team can closely monitor the after effects of the procedure.</p>
<p>Whether at home or in the hospital it is a good idea to have comforting activities and items nearby so that the recovery process can be as easy as possible.  The patient will be experiencing a wide range of physical and emotional symptoms that are brought on by the intensity of surgery and the medications that will be prescribed for dealing with pain and other such issues. One of the most commonly reported side effects of prescription pain killers, administered either orally or intravenously, is that of nausea. Because of the extent of medicines that are already being administered to the recovering patient many opt for the use of <a href="http://www.biobands.com/">BioBands</a> for their relief from <a href="http://www.biobands.com/postsurgery.htm ">nausea from surgery</a>. BioaBands are adjustable bracelets that utilized acupressure methodology to bring immediate and ongoing relief from nausea without having to administer addition chemicals into the body.</p>
<p>Other comforting items should include calming activities to relieve boredom as sitting in a hospital room can be tedious. Of course, every patient is different and their will be a difference in each individuals reaction to the medications that will be administered following surgery. Some patients may sleep a great deal and others may stay awake despite the sedative effects of the pain killers. The best activities for patients include books and magazines for reading, crossword puzzles, word games, and any other type of written puzzles like Sudoku, jigsaw puzzles, knitting, or any other sedentary activity that the patient may enjoy. Most hospitals have televisions in patient’s rooms and they can be hooked up to portable DVD players or other devices so that DVDs can be watched as well.</p>
<p>The patient’s comfort is paramount for recovery; however, there is also an amount of discomfort that is necessary for proper healing. It is recommended that patient’s get out of bed after surgery, as long as the doctors attending the case give the patient the go-ahead. The patient may only be asked to walk short distances at first or they doctors and nurses may want more strenuous activity, either way it is vital to proper recovery of the body that patients follow the orders of their medical team. Moving after surgery can keep muscles from atrophying as well as keeping scar tissues from hardening to such a degree that would cause loss of motion after certain surgical procedures. Still, it is equally as important for patients to not over do their physical movements. Some movement is needed but patients should avoid lifting heavy objects, unapproved exercise routines, and any other physical activity that may stress the body. There is a delicate balance that must be maintained throughout the recovery process and the doctors and nurses involved in each individual case are best able to dictate the steps a patient should take during the recovery process.</p>
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		<title>Spruce Your Space</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 14:11:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You want your place to look cool right? Maybe the gray walls of your cubicle don’t quite fit your fancy. Maybe that wall across from the dinner table looks a little drab. Maybe you just want to be crafty without being crafty. If you fit underneath any of these, then you should invest in some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_136" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/091511-paintchipwallart2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-136" title="091511-paintchipwallart2" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/091511-paintchipwallart2-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Here is an example of a way that you can use paint chips to make your home feel unique and crafty.</p></div>
<p>You want your place to look cool right? Maybe the gray walls of your cubicle don’t quite fit your fancy. Maybe that wall across from the dinner table looks a little drab. Maybe you just want to <a title="Preparing for Children Parties" href="http://abandonedmemories.com/preparing-for-halloween-parties/">be crafty</a> without being crafty. If you fit underneath any of these, then you should invest in some <a title="50 Fun Things to do with Paint Chip Samples" href="http://www.brokeandhealthy.com/50-fun-things-to-do-with-paint-chip-samples">paint chip samples</a>. By invest, I mean that you need to drive to your local hardware store and grab some. You can do so many cool things with them, things that you never would have imagined.</p>
<p>One idea is that you can take them and arrange them in a mosaic/collage sort of way to create a work of art in your home. You can sort them according to color, temperature, or really anything that you like. Some people make rainbows, other create a jumble of bright colors with subtle colors on the other side. Whatever you want to do is exactly what you should do because it will create a work of art uniquely yours that can brighten you house.</p>
<p>You can use them as name place cards for events such as Thanksgiving and Christmas. If you have a huge amount of family coming over, this is the perfect idea! If it is a family reunion, you can assign each family a color with individual names on them, that way they can find their place easily and you can distribute them how you would like. That could even continue on as a theme if you wanted for the whole reunion.</p>
<p>If you are moving somewhere and you do not want to send out letters and such alerting people, you can find a printer and just print your new information on these samples. It looks super cute and the paper that they are made of is very durable. This way your neighbors and people in the community will be able to contact you after you move and you will have told them in a very cost effective way.</p>
<p>Access to a print/binding shop would be ideal because you can use the paint chip samples as the covers for notebooks. All you have to do is take the front and put it on a spiral with the notebook paper in between. This creates extremely useful and unique notebooks that you can even sort by subject (if you use a different color for each subject).</p>
<p>There is no end to the things that you can do with a bunch of free paint chip samples. There are lamps you can make, bookmarks, coasters, placemats, earrings, greeting cards, and small containers. They make where ever you are much more personal and unique!</p>
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		<title>Preparing for Children Parties</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 09:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Parties, holidays and special occasions such as Halloween parties create lasting memories. We all look forward to sharing these events with family and other people around us. We throw parties for as many occasions possible ranging from a random weekend barbeque party to momentous occasions such as coming of age and weddings. Whatever party we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Planning-an-event.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-98" title="Event Planning" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Planning-an-event-248x300.jpg" alt="Planning an event" width="248" height="300" /></a>Parties, holidays and special occasions such as Halloween parties create lasting memories. We all look forward to sharing these events with family and other people around us. We throw parties for as many occasions possible ranging from a random weekend barbeque party to momentous occasions such as coming of age and weddings. Whatever party we have in mind, we are always faced with the party planning, which can be <a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/naturally-dealing-with-stress/">stressful for a mom</a>. Plan ahead and consider your budget, timetable, attendees and venue.</p>
<p>Let’s say you are planning to host a big Halloween party, consider your resources, timetable and people you need to make it successful. Create a checklist and consider all aspects from food, decorations, guests, theme, preferences, and even contingency plans.</p>
<p>A Halloween party is suitable for people of all ages; others even dress up their pets to the occasion. You can prepare the plan and ask family members for additional suggestions and agree on the final plan. Enjoining family members from planning to the party execution gives them a sense of ownership in the overall success of the event. As much as possible, involve everyone in the family even with small tasks, after all, you don’t want to end up tired and frustrated trying to run the entire party all by yourself. You may delegate tasks to family members with whatever they can do from decorating the house, preparing crafts and party favors, buying supplies, entertaining guests, taking photos and even refilling food and drinks.</p>
<p>Halloween party is an exciting occasion for kids. If you have children big enough to express their preferences, allow them to choose their costumes. You might think a Frankenstein costume is the way to go but your little boy may want to be Ben 10 for Halloween. Help them with options but empower them to decide on their costume choice, as long as it suits your budget.</p>
<p>Halloween costume is a key consideration for kids – they can step into a party venue all smiles for loving their costume or with the biggest frown on their face, if not throwing a tantrum the entire party, for hating their costume too much. Halloween costume is a big deal. If you have a baby, you wouldn&#8217;t want to leave out your little one in the party. I bet you’d even be too excited and thinking of looking through magazines, seeking through infant section department store racks and searching the internet for the best <a href="http://www.totallycostumes.com/infant-costumes.html">baby Halloween costumes for 2012</a>.  There are numerous styles of baby Halloween costumes – some are just funny while some are way too adorable.  The common baby Halloween costumes include cupid, Star Wars, princess, fireman, and even video games-themed costumes such as Plants vs Zombies or Angry Birds. When choosing a baby’s Halloween costume, others go for a timeless costume since a baby is naturally cute, with or without a costume.</p>
<p>Although mothers like dressing up their little ones, remember to keep them safe and comfortable.  Keep in mind that babies are very curious and may find their busy hands pulling loose threads, snaps and buttons. The baby’s costume must be free from any obstruction on the eye area and must not be too long or heavy since their sense of balance and motor skills are not yet well developed. It is also important to select fire retardant costumes as added precaution.  Finally, avoid itchy costumes and ensure buntings fit well.</p>
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		<title>Hamburger Cake</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 20:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During Thanksgiving, I had a friend who made an awesome looking &#8220;turkey cake.&#8221; I wish I had pictures to show how cool it was. His cake faked me out because of how real it looked. It looked exactly like an oven-roasted turkey. I asked him how he did it and he gave me some pointers, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During Thanksgiving, I had a friend who made an awesome looking &#8220;turkey cake.&#8221; I wish I had pictures to show how cool it was. His cake faked me out because of how real it looked. It looked exactly like an oven-roasted turkey. I asked him how he did it and he gave me some pointers, and then I took my research to youtube. Thanksgiving is already old news, so I began looking for other cool foods I could have my cake look like. I came across the video embedded below. This video is very informative and only 3 minutes long! I hope you enjoy making your own creative cakes.</p>
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		<title>5 Things Your Personalized Gifts Should Never Say</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 10:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gift personalization will obviously make any gift more personal can make for some great memories, in addition to showing you took extra time and effort into the decision, but if you don&#8217;t put some time and thought into getting the message right, you may wind up simply embarrassing yourself. Here are five things that you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gift personalization will obviously make any gift more personal can make for some <a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/">great memories</a>, in addition to showing you took extra time and effort into the decision, but if you don&#8217;t put some time and thought into getting the message right, you may wind up simply embarrassing yourself. Here are five things that you want to avoid when writing out a message for <a href="http://www.lillianvernon.com/  ">personalized gifts</a>.</p>
<h3><strong>&#8220;Half a Happy Birthday!&#8221;</strong></h3>
<p>Misspellings can be really embarrassing on a personalized gift, especially if you got the gift and delivered it without noticing the typo. <a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Personalized-Calendar.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-78" title="Personalized Calendar" src="http://abandonedmemories.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Personalized-Calendar.jpg" alt="Personalized items make for great gifts if you choose wisely. " width="300" height="300" /></a>Make sure to check your message before you send it to the printer, check it when you get it back and make sure that the gift says what you want it to say.</p>
<h3><strong>Happy Divorce!</strong></h3>
<p>There are some events that you probably don&#8217;t want to commemorate with a personalized gift unless you know your friend has a dark sense of humor. This is especially true with things that may still be fresh in their mind. That said, you know your friends better than anyone and if you know when a good laugh will pick up their spirits, that&#8217;s your call to make.</p>
<h3><strong>300 Pounds of Joy!</strong></h3>
<p>Here&#8217;s a tip: If somebody is overweight, they probably don&#8217;t want personalized clothing that points it out. Everybody can see that they&#8217;re not at their ideal weight, no point rubbing it in! The only time to do this is when you&#8217;re trying to get revenge on a sworn enemy. Otherwise, keep the fat jokes off the clothes.</p>
<h3><strong>Here&#8217;s to Your New Year&#8217;s Resolution!</strong></h3>
<p>Hold the celebratory gifts for when there&#8217;s something to celebrate. A ball cap or coffee mug to commemorate a plan to start a new business, lose weight or finish that novel is only going to wind up looking kind of sad six months from now if things don&#8217;t pan out like you expect them to.</p>
<h3><strong>(Insert Corny, Topical Joke Here)</strong></h3>
<p>Any time you shoehorn some corny topical culture reference into your <a href="http://www.lillianvernon.com/Category/PersonalizedGifts">personalized gift ideas</a>, it feels tacky, impersonal and it winds up feeling dated and old within a year. Try to avoid catch phrases you got from Jersey Shore and Family Guy. Gift personalization means writing the sentiment yourself, not looking to TV and pop culture to write it for you.</p>
<p>Creating the perfect personalized gifts for the special people in your life can be rewarding all around. Your friend gets a great gift and you get the satisfaction of giving it to them. Try to focus on the kind of message that lets them know how well you really know them. Something personal, touching and maybe funny.</p>
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		<title>Top 10 Cities to Visit In Europe</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Europe is the one place on earth that encompasses everything that is old and new, magical and logical, ancient and modern, wild and calm. In Europe, you’re always a short, cheap flight away from countless new adventures. With a menu of countries, cities, and cultures all clustered together, there’s something for everyone and you can’t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Europe is the one place on earth that encompasses everything that is old and new, magical and logical, ancient and modern, wild and calm. In Europe, you’re always a short, cheap flight away from countless new adventures. With a menu of countries, cities, and cultures all clustered together, there’s something for everyone and you can’t go wrong. Check out a few favorites, find a place to stay, and take off on your next adventure</p>
<p>1) Milan, Italy</p>
<p>One of the world’s fashion and design capitals, Milan is said to represent the “new” Italy as it is the most modern among Italian cities, yet it has kept most of its historic centers intact. If you want to experience this city with an extreme lifestyle, search for cheap flights for students and expect an easy travel to this city, which is recognized as having one of the best international connections, courtesy of its two major airports and efficient railway system and road network. Milan is located in the plains of the Italian region of Lombardy.</p>
<p>2) Brussels, Belgium<img class="alignright" src="http://images.studentuniverse.com/new/guides/top-10-cities-to-visit-in-europe-brussels-belgium.png" alt="" width="230" height="210" /></p>
<p>Brussels is the capital city of Belgium, but many also consider it the capital of the European Union. Though Brussels is the headquarters of both NATO and the European Union, you don’t have to worry about being surrounded by just international diplomats. This beautiful city has several vibrant areas, such as Elsene, which is packed with restaurants and bars. Brussels is surrounded by parks and one of the coolest is the Cinquantenaire park. The entrance from the city is a huge arch and you can walk or take the elevator to the top for a fantastic view of Brussels. Students looking for a fun trip to Europe might find Brussels to be a great starting point. You can find cheap flights to Brussels and since this beautiful and scenic city is right in the heart of Europe you can easily get to other European hot-spots from there.</p>
<p>3) Berlin, Germany</p>
<p>Berlin has played a key role in several tragic historical events; it was the base for Hitler’s Nazi army, the battleground of the cold war, and it was later divided by the Berlin Wall. Berlin remembers its past with several monuments and museums that are all worth seeing. Today Berlin is the heart of Germany and a wonderful and exciting city. Students traveling to Berlin can enjoy trendy restaurants, shops, pubs and boutiques. Berlin has great public transportation, so you’ll be able to get around the city easily. Berlin is a popular tourist destination and for many students it is also a popular destination because of its estivals, urban charm and the fact that it has a busy rail hub.</p>
<p>4) Munich, Germany</p>
<p>Munich, the largest city in Germany, is home to more than 2 million people and a fabulous culture. With its world famous architecture and culture and its famous Oktoberfest beer celebration, Munich is a great place for fun. Historical and grand, Munich also features some of the best museums in Germany which are said to outrank even Berlin. Haidhausen is a really popular nightlife district with great clubs such as Kultfabrik and Optimolwerk. With museums by day and clubs by night, Munich is a great place for any tourist to stay!</p>
<p>5) Istanbul, Turkey</p>
<p>Guidebooks write about how “Istanbul straddles Europe and Asia,” but that’s not the reason you should visit the city formerly known as Constantinople. The real reason is the sense of mystery and intrigue you feel when you arrive. Turkish pop music blares against the call of the muezzin. Carpet dealers bully and charm you into buying a rug as you wander down smoky alleyways to lavish palaces. Women in headscarves and long skirts, men in jeans and Billy Idol tee-shirts rush by as you lose your way in the invigorating chaos of a back street bazaar. Istanbul is shrouded in history, layered in religion, and wrapped up in theatre. Muslim life blends seamlessly with the business of the street. Food vendors offer delicious samples of lokum, a young boy hawks electronics from Taiwan while a man stops and prays at a street-side mosque. Shopping is like swimming in an ocean of people – carpet sellers, shoeshine boys and salesmen from stores push at the tide of bodies wandering through the streets. Cars roar past, and the air is thick with the smells of spice, fish, and flowers – and the treasures of Turkey. Make sure you spend some time in Istanbul to experience its rich culture.</p>
<p>6) Manchester, England</p>
<p>Manchester, located in north-west England, has a classy culture with a historic vibe. With it’s 2.5 million people in the greater area, Manchester is never short of party-goers. Old meets new in Manchester with some of the oldest buildings in England sitting right next to some of the hottest clubs. Throw in a fantastic soccer team and tons of music venues and you have a great time ahead of you! Manchester never fails as an exciting stay for students!</p>
<p>7) Athens, Greece<img class="alignright" src="http://images.studentuniverse.com/new/guides/top-10-cities-to-visit-in-europe-athens-greece.png" alt="" width="230" height="210" /></p>
<p>Athens is more than just a city. It is the birthplace of modern civilization, the beginning of the creation of the west, and the start of democracy and rule. The capital of Greece and a major metropolitan with 3.7 million citizens, this city has a lot to offer to college students looking for an experience. With a gorgeous skyline, many old and beautiful buildings, and ruins that date back to B.C. It is a really amazing place for anyone to visit, especially to stay in for a while. It’s a great way to get the full feeling of Athens and see it through the lens of the locals.</p>
<p>8) Seville, Spain</p>
<p>Seville draws in tourists from around the world annually. The colors and vibrant nature of this Andalucian city has been luring students to visit for years. Located in southern Spain and the capital of Andalucia (southern region of Spain), Seville is not just a pretty city. It is also the cultural and financial center for Spain. With a little over 1.6 million people living here, this city rounds out the top four largest in the country. The orange tree-lined streets are filled with businessmen, college students, and tourists looking for a good time. A myth is that Hercules himself founded Seville and it was at a time ruled by Romans, then later the Moorish. The history alone is fascinating. However, the sights and attractions will blow you away and the coast is to die for. See why thousands of students come here every year for culture and history of Seville.</p>
<p>9) Edinburgh, Scotland</p>
<p>Even in the rain, Edinburgh is just downright beautiful. From the ruggedness of Edinburgh Castle and the mannered Georgian mansions of New Town, to the emphatic Scottish culture of the capital, Edinburgh is a city that welcomes tourists. This city is built not just on hills, but on history, romance, and culture. The city is filled with everything a student traveler could ask for. History, festivals, and great nightlife make the city a great place to visit. Travelers can experience a wide variety of activities from visiting Edinburgh Castle to enjoying a rugby match. It also allows you to explore a country that is at times overlooked due to its more popular neighbors, Ireland and England.</p>
<p>10) Marseille, France</p>
<p>Next to Paris and Lyon, Marseille is the most populous commune in France and the second largest in terms of land area. Located on the shores of the Mediterranean coast, Marseille is one of the oldest cities in Europe and is listed as a major center of art and history. It is an excellent destination for student travelers as this city presently finds itself fashionable in different aspects, without abandoning any of its rich history. Check out the nineteenth-century basilica of Notre-Dame-de-la-Garde where you can get a wonderful view of this beautiful city. Marseille also offers great bars that double as ice cream parlors and fun around every corner. Don’t miss Marseille on your list of great places to visit.</p>
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		<title>Family Boating Trips</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 10:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, your last family road trip didn’t go so well. The kids were less-than-cooperative, traffic was a nightmare, and the AC in the van broke down. Chances are, you’re thinking that the next time you attempt something like that will be…well, never. But fortunately for you, other options exist that can save the family trip [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, your last family road trip didn’t go so well. The kids were less-than-cooperative, traffic was a nightmare, and the AC in the van broke down. Chances are, you’re thinking that the next time you attempt something like that will be…well, never. But fortunately for you, other options exist that can save the family trip from an early demise. In this case, though, you’ll need to think wetter.</p>
<p>That’s right—a family boating trip. Sometimes a mere change of scene can get the same group of humans to behave with a a lot more</p>
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<p>congeniality than they would on a land-based trip. But if you’re still not sold on the idea of a family boating trip, read on. Here are a few things you can do to make the trip fun for everyone.</p>
<p>You’ll also need to take a look at your boat. If you don&#8217;t have a boat you can look at several different kinds, but <a href="http://www.iboats.com">fly fishing pontoon boats</a> are great if you&#8217;re looking for a leisurely ride with a lot of people. Ski boats are good if you&#8217;re looking to do a lot of recreation activities behind the boat. There are also options to rent boats, or perhaps you know someone with a boat that would let you borrow it&#8211;or go with them for more friends on the trip!</p>
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<p>Kids won’t get onboard with idea of a boating trip until they feel like they’re part of the planning process. So show them maps of the lake, the coast, or wherever you hope to visit. Let them have a say—have a family vote! Once you’ve decided on your destination, you’ll need to start checking weather forecasts to make sure that your trip doesn’t finish before it begins.</p>
<p>If you’ve never attempted a trip with anyone other than your spouse or a couple of fishing buddies, chances are you’ll need to make the vessel a little more kid-friendly. If you don’t already have one installed, think about getting a <a href="http://www.iboats.com/Boat-Parts-Seats-Pontoon-Furniture/dm/view_id.473663 ">boat bench seat</a>—they’re not too pricey, are easy to fit to your boat, and allow you to fit a few more people comfortably. After all, not everyone will want to stay on their feet for the duration of the trip. Make sure that all your lines, equipment, and hardware are in good working order.</p>
<p>The next part of the process should be done with a little diplomacy: instructing kids on boating safety. Kids need to know about life jackets, float plans, and the basic mechanics of how boats operate. But you don’t want to turn the endeavor into an unscheduled school lesson; this is fun, remember? Whether before or after you get out on the water, show your spouse and your kids where the flares, emergency flags, and kill switch are. Taking a few seconds to teach them early on could save a life later. If one of your kids is old enough, show them how to operate the boat—at least well enough to steer it to safety should something happen to you.</p>
<p>Once all the housekeeping items are done, it’s time to have fun! Don’t over-schedule the day. Kids (and grown-ups, for that matter) need to feel like the excursion is a free, open time when they can enjoy the scenery, do some water sports, eat, and socialize without looking at a clock. Make sure that you have plenty of snacks on hand in case someone comes down with a case of hunger-induced surliness (including you). Let the kids call some of the shots with regard to your activities throughout the day. Having something for everyone to do will help you and your kids feel comfortable. And remember some <a href="http://abandonedmemories.com/naturally-dealing-with-stress/">tips to stay stress free</a> too!</p>
<p>So if the highway has lost some of its mystique, if the woods no longer look inviting, then you might consider tuning up the boat and bringing the family along for the ride—you’ll be glad you did. And since the waterway itself is the destination, you can rest assured that no one will utter those famous words “Are we there yet?”</p>
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		<title>Naturally Dealing With Stress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people look for natural ways to deal with daily stress. It’s probably a good idea to deal with it each day, too, so that the stress does not get “held in” and therefore is allowed to wreak havoc on your health. Here are some tips for dealing with everyday stress the natural way. Consider [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people look for natural ways to deal with daily stress. It’s probably a good idea to deal with it each day, too, so that the stress does not get “held in” and therefore is allowed to wreak havoc on your health.</p>
<p>Here are some tips for dealing with everyday stress the natural way.</p>
<p>Consider What You Eat</p>
<p>Stress relief may be as close as your dinner plate. While it’s not going to magically remove all stressful things from your life, a healthy diet can really help you deal positively with life’s stressors. Some foods to include in your stress-management diet include nuts, seeds, fresh fruits and vegetables, and whole grains.</p>
<p>Prepare for Little Things</p>
<p>As you work to reduce and deal with everyday stress, it helps to prevent those little stressors that can add up to make a very bad day. Here are some little things to remember each day (you can even make a list and post it beside the front door so you’ll see it before you leave the house, and so you don’t have to try and remember all these things):</p>
<p>* Have an extra car key handy on your person (around your neck, in a pocket, etc.) so you don’t lock your only key in the car by accident.</p>
<p>* Have snacks on hand in case your favorite lunch place is closed or if you get stuck in traffic and can’t get home or to a restaurant to eat. Also, snacking on healthy foods helps keep blood sugar steady, which may help reduce stress symptoms.</p>
<p>* Keep water or a drink handy.</p>
<p>* Check your finances before you leave the house: coupons, wallet, check book, credit cards, etc. Take stock of what you have so you don’t stress yourself out trying to figure out what you can and can’t afford.</p>
<p>Listen to Music</p>
<p>Choose music that is calming and peaceful, and play it throughout the day or whenever you can. You may not even pay much attention to it after a while, but it is probably affecting your stress levels (in a good way!).</p>
<p>Exercise</p>
<p>Regular exercise has been shown to greatly reduce stress. The key, sources say, is to exercise daily so that your everyday stresses are “worked out,” so to speak. Exercise helps basically every body system, and gives you a much-needed energy boost that can help you handle the stressors that come your way each day.</p>
<p>Deep Breathing</p>
<p>Slow, deep, regular breaths are said to help stress. Periodically during the day, you can stop and take 5 to 10 deep breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth. Breathing out should be as slow as breathing in. When you breathe in, it’s recommended that you “aim” toward your belly button, as though breathing into your lower abdomen.</p>
<p>Stretching</p>
<p>Regular stretching exercises help loosen tight, tense muscles and increase circulation. A few minutes of stretching at intervals throughout the day can have a positive effect on your stress levels.</p>
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